Ain’t nobody gonna save you

My sister showed me this song a few years ago. it’s one of those songs that sticks with you.

 

Breaking up with him was the best thing I’ve done for myself. I still love him and it was heart-breaking, but I haven’t felt this free and alive in 4 years.

What makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy has nothing to do with love. It’s not lack of love that makes a relationship unhealthy. it’s unhealthy because it’s used as a way to escape from emptiness.

All relationships nourish something. It’s what they nourish that determines whether or not they’re healthy. Does the relationship nourish your insecurity or your self-worth? Your fear of rejection or your need for connection?

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